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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Hi @Shaz51 


I hope you are okay - it sounds as if you are wearing a bit thin.


You have a lot happening - I hope you can fit some time in there for yourself too


And take care of Poor Little Kidney - I think he gets pretty tired at times


I really care about my Little Family - up there in QueenslandHeart


Dec - your second Mum

Re: Not sure what to do !!!


had a very busy week and worked yesterday morning

today I had morning tea with my mum , aunty and cousin

and this afternoon we mowed and cleaned up our yard


this week will be a lot better my second mum @Dec Heart

fingers crossed

@outlander, @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Darcy ,

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  @Sherry , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Dec , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1 , @Smc , @Darcy , @greenpea , @octavia , @eth , @EOR , @Adge , @frog 

wow today was different

mr shaz went and mowed a big lawn while I cleaned mum`s house and did lots of jobs for the morning for her

had a lovely cuppa with her first Smiley Very Happy, it was soo nice

and she loved it

and then i did the house work , washed the floors , did her washing , watered her plants , ect , etc

then we sat together talking until mr shaz came and picked me up

then we went home and had lunch

and I did bookwork while mr shaz mowed the lawn next door


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Productive day yesterday lovely @Shaz51 

Enjoy today too and have a cuppa for me Smiley Happy

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i love my grandmas/ mum`s house

@frog, @outlander , @Dec , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Darcy , @Determined 


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@Shaz51 💙💙

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Hi @Shaz51 


I can see you there adding supports - good work - I have come into the forum late today and I am skimming over the top but you mention loving your Mum's/Granma's house - that's so great - I never liked my parents home - it's long been sold now and I am wondering about the family that bought it - maybe my parents' constant renovations made it more comfortable but that only happened after I had left home. It was draughty and crowded.


I am glad you enjoy the houses in your family - Dec

thKRBVX245.jpgBursting at the sides - whew

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hello @Dec Smiley Very Happy

it was grandma`s house when she moved up here in 1935

mum and her siblings were brought up there until mum got married

mum and i moved into grandmas house when i was 16 until i got married


and then we inherited dad`s house, which has too many bad memories for me and my mum until i was 11 when we left , so I could sell dad`s house no worries


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Hi again @Shaz51 


Yes - of course - sell Dad's house but I hope you can hang onto your Mum's place if  you love it so much - it would be too hard to knock it downSmiley Mad



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